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Balancing Compassion, Practicality: Sponsoring Family Member in Need


Dear Dr. Milan –

I married a man about half my age, from the other side of the world. Awkwardly, his mother is a few years younger than I am. Recently, we have discovered his mother is being abused by her husband (his father). We want to invite her to come stay with us in New York to get away from him and find safety. However, my husband is now suggesting she stay permanently and that we sponsor her for her green card. She has never worked because she stayed home to take care of their home and she does not speak English. Being younger than me, I find it rather awkward. But I want to do the right thing. Can you tell me what the right thing is?

Nice Guy in New York

Dear Nice Guy,

You are facing a very challenging situation where empathy, practicality, and personal boundaries are all at play. It’s clear that you want to do the right thing by supporting your mother-in-law, but there are a few important factors to consider before making such a big commitment.

  1. Emotional and Practical Boundaries

First, it’s important to acknowledge the complex dynamics here. You’ve already navigated an age gap and cultural differences in your marriage, and now you’re facing the reality of inviting a family member into your home under difficult circumstances. You want to support your husband, but your own feelings of awkwardness are valid, especially given the close proximity to your mother-in-law’s age.

It’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about how you feel. You can express that while you want to help his mother, you’re not sure about the permanence of the arrangement, particularly given the emotional and financial responsibility that would come with sponsoring her for a green card.

You could say something like:

“I want to support your mom, and I agree she needs to get away from the abuse. However, I’m concerned about what permanent living arrangements and sponsorship would mean for us, especially given our current situation. I feel a bit uncomfortable with the idea of her living with us indefinitely, and I think we need to talk about what the long-term plan looks like for everyone.”

This approach communicates your willingness to help while also making space for your own feelings and concerns.

  1. Practical Considerations of Sponsorship

Sponsoring a green card for someone is a significant commitment, both legally and financially. Beyond housing her, there are the realities of providing for her well-being, especially given that she hasn’t worked in the past and may not have skills to support herself independently in the U.S.

It’s important to consider whether you and your husband can fully support her—not just physically, but also emotionally and financially. If her permanent stay in your home is part of the plan, you should have a clear understanding of what that might entail in the years ahead.

You might want to consider speaking to an immigration attorney to understand the legal process and any potential complications. Are there other ways you can help her without the permanent commitment? For example, can she stay temporarily while you help her find resources and legal support to explore other options, such as seeking protection and independence in the U.S.?

  1. Impact on Your Marriage and Family Life

This decision will not only affect your relationship with your mother-in-law but also your relationship with your husband. While it’s admirable that he wants to help his mother, your feelings are equally important. It’s essential to find a balance between supporting his wishes and honoring your own needs.

It could help to set boundaries early on to protect your own space and ensure that your relationship continues to thrive. You can find a solution that allows your mother-in-law to get the support she needs, but also ensures that your family unit remains intact and healthy.

For example, you might suggest:

“Maybe we can support her emotionally by helping her find a safe place to stay temporarily while she gets the help she needs. If we sponsor her for a green card, we would need to be sure we can provide for her in the long term. Let’s think about what is best for all of us before making any permanent decisions.”

  1. Compassionate Help Without Overextending

Offering temporary support may allow you to help her escape the abuse without committing to a permanent living arrangement. You could consider offering to connect her with domestic violence resources or temporary housing programs, or you could offer help navigating legal options for her.

Helping her transition into a safer, more independent life may be a better long-term solution than permanently integrating her into your household, especially if this would bring complications or strains on your relationship.

Final Thoughts

There is no one-size-fits-all answer to your situation, but your first priority should always be the well-being of your family—yourself, your husband, and your children. You can support your mother-in-law without putting your family’s emotional or financial stability at risk. Taking the time to carefully weigh the practical, emotional, and legal consequences will allow you to make the best decision for everyone involved.

With Compassion,
Dr. Sami Milan


VOA Interview: Muhammad Yunus on Restoring Order in Bangladesh 


New York, N.Y. — After a series of student-led protests resulted in hundreds of civilian casualties, former Bangladeshi Prime Minister Sheikh Hasina stepped down and fled the country on August 5.

Days later, Muhammad Yunus, the Nobel laureate who pioneered the global microcredit movement, was sworn in as the nation’s interim leader. He spoke with Voice of America Bangla Service reporter Anis Ahmed on Friday in New York, where he explained his decision to grant temporary magistracy powers to the army to restore law and order after the police lost public trust. He also stressed the critical role of youth leadership in shaping the country’s future.

Yunus, who took office amid widespread unrest, highlighted key priorities such as strengthening relations with neighboring countries, holding elections, reforming the constitution and addressing the Rohingya refugee crisis. He confirmed that reforms and elections remained essential before power could be handed over to elected representatives.

The following transcript has been edited for length and clarity:

VOA: First, we would like to know that after nearly one and a half months of assuming this responsibility on August 8, you have now delegated magistracy power to army officers. Why do you feel it was necessary?

Muhammad Yunus, chief adviser of the interim government of Bangladesh: To bring law and order to the country. We were trying to work it out through the police, which is normal. But the police have lost their moral courage because when they face people, they hear bitter words. Just a few days ago they killed some students, so they are distancing themselves — they don’t want to be out front. So, as they lost morale, we lost the strength of law and order. But as we’ve said before, not everyone in the police is responsible for wrongdoing. We will identify those who have done wrong. They will be brought to justice. But this is a long process; it’s not happening all of a sudden. And in the meantime, law and order is being violated — different types of violations are happening. We thought that if we allowed this to continue, then conditions would deteriorate, so the issue of giving powers to our army came up. We asked the army, and they agreed. They said, “We’re here, but no one is heeding us because we do not have any power. If we had some power, the people would be cautious.” We then gave them the magistracy power but for a limited period, for two months. That’s how it happened.

VOA: So, you’re hopeful that the police service will return in two months?

Yunus: Yes, I hope so. They’re not able to use their power; the army has come in and that’s not very pleasing for them that their duties are being performed by someone else.

VOA: We know students took the role of leadership amid the unrest, and that there are student representatives in your government as well. But is it also true that we are seeing students trying to establish their authority in different sectors and institutions of the country? Are these students running the country? What role are they playing?

Yunus: Yes, they should. The youth should assume authority. So far, the old people have made mistakes, so let there be an effort for youth to come forward and take responsibility. They might also make mistakes and then correct those, but their leadership ushered in big changes. So, I don’t find any reasons to doubt their capacity for leadership.

VOA: So, can we say that the students are running your administration?

Yunus: No, I didn’t say they are running the administration, I said they should. Let the youth take it. I have always said, even before I took this responsibility, that it should be in the hands of the youth because they will build their future. If we try to write the future for them, that would not be right. So, I’ll say again that not only in Bangladesh but in the entire world, youth should be given this responsibility.

VOA: We haven’t heard anything from you regarding the duration of this interim government, but General Waqar-Uz-Zaman recently said an election would occur within the next 18 months. Are we safe to assume the interim government would dissolve at that time?

Yunus: Well, if you want to presume, you may, but that’s not the decision of the government. The government has not given any opinion so far. The government needs to say when they would take a decision about their duration.

VOA: The Advisory Committee to the interim government has yet to make any decisions?

Yunus: We have discussed but no decisions have been taken yet.

VOA: What are the plans of your government to improve relations with India?

Yunus: We are telling them clearly that we want good relations with them. Because that is needed for India and for us, too. We are neighbors. If relations between neighbors are bad, it’s not good for any nation. It’s not good for them, nor for us. It’s in the interest of our two countries that our relations should be close and cordial.

VOA: Former Prime Minister Sheikh Hasina is in India. What steps are you taking to extradite her to Bangladesh?

Yunus: This is a legal matter. Definitely we will want her back, wherever she might be, whenever we can legally implement the decision.

VOA: After August 5, Bangabandhu Memorial Museum, once home to Hasina’s father but turned into a museum after his assasination there, Sheikh Mujibur Rahman, was destroyed. Your government subsequently canceled the national day of mourning. Obviously, some look on Rahman, in their words, as a fascist icon. But Rahman has long been recognized as the father of the nation. What’s the viewpoint of your interim government?

Yunus: You’re talking about the past. Apparently, you don’t remember that a mass uprising has since taken place. You’re speaking as if it never happened. You need to see what’s happening in this new situation. You do not seem to have any questions about how many students have sacrificed their lives, why they sacrificed their lives. First, we must admit that they, the students, said that we have pushed a reset button. The past is gone for sure. Now we will build up in new way. People also want that. And this new way means we must bring reforms.

VOA: We’ve paid respect to those killed during the student-led uprisings, and you have said that their killers will be brought to justice. But at the same time, after August 5, many others were killed. A short while ago we were talking about many police being killed. What steps are being taken by your government to bring the perpetrators to justice?

Yunus: Whoever has committed a crime and wherever that might be, they will be brought to justice. If that’s not done, justice won’t be complete. To judge one type of crime and not another, that’s not acceptable. That would be a form of partisan justice. So, if we return to that kind of partisanship, the mass movement would have been meaningless. So, if crime is committed, the criminal will face the law.

VOA: There are more than a million Rohingya currently displaced in Bangladesh. Will your government grant them refugee status?

Yunus: International institutions have given them this status. The United Nations refugee agency [UNHCR] has been working there for a long time. So, they are refugees. They are not citizens of our country.

VOA: But officially they are not recognized as refugees.

Yunus: If they were not refugees, UNHCR couldn’t reach them.

VOA: Thousands of Rohingya recently arrived in Bangladesh, and it is assumed that more are on the way. So, if more Rohingya enter Bangladesh, then what would be your decision?

Yunus: According to international law, if they want to come, we will let them. We will accept them. And then we’ll do whatever is necessary. It’s not our problem alone. It is the responsibility of the entire world. When one’s life is at stake, one seeks refuge. We cannot close doors on them. You know, it’s been going on for ages. They have been here for the last seven years. Questions are being raised about their future and the future of their children. Nearly 32,000 Rohingya children are born here every year, so the Rohingya community is growing, even independently of new arrivals. When they came, they brought infant children with them. They, too, have grown up. What are you going to do about them? They can’t even see their future. Because of high-tech media they can see the entire world, but they’re confined like in a prison. They may grow angry; they may grow rebellious. This is not a good thing. We don’t know how it’s going to spread, where it will go. We really don’t know, so the whole world should focus on how to help them have a satisfying life. We are looking for a solution.

VOA: There are discussions about constitutional amendments. You’ve even established a committee about it. Is it going to happen during your interim government’s time and what kind of changes or amendments are you expecting?

Yunus: As I said before, we must begin everything anew. The previous government destroyed everything. So, from that destruction we need to rise afresh. That’s why we are establishing commissions for all fields. We have made six commissions; more commissions will come soon. Of those, one commission is on the constitution. The whole country wants the constitution to be amended. However, the topic may be subject to debate. That’s why the commission will create guidelines for those debates. That will give the country an opportunity to debate on it so that the political parties can give their opinion and can decide whether they are going to amend right now or later, and what exactly they would do. The constitution that we have now will not be helpful. If the country runs according to the present constitution, the same situation will happen again.

VOA: Some people are talking about changing the constitution, others are talking about amending it. Whatever happens, how is it going to be implemented?

Yunus: It is a matter of law. What we are now doing is not on the process of implementation, we are focusing on why we need it. When they sit for discussion, they will decide those matters from a legal perspective. We are trying to reach a unanimous opinion on what exactly we need. Then there will be another round of discussion on the legal process.

VOA: What are your main objectives as interim leader?

Yunus: My main objectives are to bring in reforms, to arrange an election and hand over the power to the elected representatives.

VOA: The chief adviser of the interim government of Bangladesh, Dr. Muhammad Yunus, thank you so much on behalf of Voice of America.

Yunus: Thanks to you, too.

This interview was translated from the original Bangla language by VOA Bangla Service’s Anis Ahmed.

October 1, 2024: President Jimmy Carter’s 100th Birthday


One of the most touching aspects of Carter’s centennial celebration was the outpouring of love for his simple, down-to-earth approach to life. Even as a former president, he continued to volunteer for Habitat for Humanity, building homes for the less fortunate well into his 90s.


New York, N.Y. — On October 1, 2024, the world paused to celebrate an extraordinary milestone: President Jimmy Carter’s 100th birthday. As the longest-living U.S. president in history, Carter’s centennial was not just a celebration of longevity but a testament to a life dedicated to service, compassion, and peace.

During World War II, Jimmy Carter studied at the U.S. Naval Academy in Annapolis, taking his courses in Stephen Bleecker Luce Hall.

In a small, heartfelt gathering in Plains, Georgia—Carter’s beloved hometown—the streets were adorned with banners and balloons, while residents and visitors alike shared fond memories of their “favorite son.”

Across the country and the globe, leaders, celebrities, and everyday citizens sent tributes to honor a man who spent his life working for the betterment of others.

Jimmy Carter’s journey has been remarkable. From his roots as a peanut farmer to serving as the 39th president of the United States, Carter’s legacy has transcended politics.

His presidency, spanning from 1977 to 1981, was marked by key achievements, including the Camp David Accords, a historic peace agreement between Israel and Egypt, which earned him global recognition as a champion of diplomacy and peace. Even after leaving office, Carter’s work was far from over.

Founding the Carter Center in 1982, he and his wife Rosalynn launched initiatives aimed at promoting human rights, advancing democracy, and eradicating diseases like Guinea worm and river blindness.

Carter’s tireless work earned him the Nobel Peace Prize in 2002, cementing his place not just as a statesman, but as a humanitarian icon.

His efforts to combat poverty, monitor elections in troubled regions, and bring hope to the world’s most vulnerable populations inspired millions.

One of the most touching aspects of Carter’s centennial celebration was the outpouring of love for his simple, down-to-earth approach to life.

Even as a former president, he continued to volunteer for Habitat for Humanity, building homes for the less fortunate well into his 90s. That image of him hammering nails alongside other volunteers became emblematic of his belief that serving others was the greatest form of leadership.

The event in Plains was both intimate and grand. Music filled the air as local choirs sang “Happy Birthday” and children waved small American flags. Carter, although now frail, smiled warmly as he took in the scene.

He offered a few heartfelt words, reminding the crowd of his guiding principles: love, service, and peace. “I’ve always believed,” he said softly, “that we can create a better world by looking out for one another. I’m grateful to have lived long enough to see the progress we’ve made.”

Tributes poured in from across the globe.

President Joe Biden and former presidents Barack Obama, Bill Clinton, and George W. Bush shared heartfelt messages, reflecting on Carter’s legacy. Celebrities who worked with him on humanitarian projects also paid their respects. “Jimmy Carter is proof that true greatness lies in how we treat others,” Oprah Winfrey remarked in a moving speech.

As night fell, a brilliant display of fireworks lit up the sky over Plains, a fitting tribute to a man who had always sought to light up the lives of others. The world joined together to honor Jimmy Carter—not just for his remarkable 100 years, but for the timeless example of kindness and service that will continue to inspire generations to come.

It was a celebration of life well-lived, a reminder that even at 100, the impact of Jimmy Carter’s work still echoes through every act of kindness, every peace accord, and every life changed by his dedication to making the world a better place.


October 1, 2024: President Jimmy Carter’s 100th Birthday (Oct. 1, 2024)

Filipino American History Month – A Legacy of Struggle and Triumph


Filipino American History Month highlights centuries of struggle,
resilience, and contributions to America amid calls for better recognition

Los Angeles — Filipino American History Month (FAHM), observed every October since its official designation by Congress in 2009, commemorates the enduring legacy and contributions of Filipinos in the United States.

This month-long celebration highlights the struggles, resilience, and achievements of Filipino Americans, whose history in the U.S. dates back to October 18, 1587, when Luzones Indios first set foot in Morro Bay, California aboard the Spanish galleon Nuestra Señora de Esperanza.

Despite their integral role in shaping American society—from labor movements led by figures like Larry Itliong to military service during World War IIFilipino Americans have often faced systemic challenges.

These include colonial exploitation, racial discrimination, and exclusionary policies such as the First Supplemental Surplus Appropriation Rescission Act of 1946, which denied Filipino WWII veterans benefits they were promised for their service.


The theme of FAHM 2024, “Struggle, Resistance, Solidarity, and Resilience,” encapsulates these adversities while celebrating the community’s triumphs over them.

From activism against unfair labor practices to cultural contributions in art and music by icons like Olivia Rodrigo, Filipino Americans continue to enrich the fabric of American society.

However, disbelief and frustration persist over the lack of widespread recognition for Filipino American contributions. While events like Fil Fest USA in Virginia spotlight Filipino heritage through food festivals and performances by artists like Jay R, many argue that these efforts fall short of addressing deeper issues of representation and equity.


Filipino American History Month – A Legacy of Struggle and Triumph (Oct. 1, 2024)



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Celebrating LGBT History Month – Legacy of Resilience and Progress


Monthly Feature: October


New York, N.Y. — Every October, communities across the globe come alive with vibrant celebrations, educational events, and heartfelt reflections as LGBT History Month takes center stage.


Established in the United States in 1994 by Missouri high school history teacher Rodney Wilson, this annual observance shines a spotlight on the contributions, struggles, and triumphs of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals throughout history. What began as a grassroots effort has blossomed into an international movement, fostering understanding, pride, and progress.

LGBT History Month isn’t just a time to look back—it’s a powerful reminder of how far society has come and how much further it can go. From the Stonewall Riots of 1969, which ignited the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement, to the legalization of same-sex marriage in numerous countries, the journey has been marked by courage and resilience.

This month honors icons like Marsha P. Johnson, a Black transgender activist who fought for equality, and Harvey Milk, the first openly gay elected official in California, whose legacy continues to inspire.



Why does it matter?

In a world where discrimination still lingers, LGBT History Month offers a chance to educate and uplift. It’s a celebration of identity, a rejection of erasure, and a call to recognize the diverse voices that have shaped culture, politics, and human rights.

Schools, libraries, and organizations host events—think panel discussions, film screenings, and art exhibits—bringing history to life. For younger generations, it’s an opportunity to see themselves reflected in the past and empowered for the future.

Take, for example, the story of Bayard Rustin, a gay Black civil rights leader who organized the 1963 March on Washington. Often overlooked, his contributions highlight the intersectionality of the LGBTQ+ experience—a key theme of this month. By amplifying such narratives, we build bridges between communities and challenge stereotypes.

It’s not just about the past; it’s about creating a more inclusive present.



This year’s celebrations, observed in October 2025, come at a pivotal moment.

With global conversations around gender identity and equality gaining momentum, LGBT History Month serves as both a beacon of hope and a rallying cry. Organizations like GLAAD and the Human Rights Campaign encourage participation through workshops and online campaigns, making it easier than ever to get involved. Whether it’s attending a local event or sharing a story on social media, every action counts.

The impact is tangible.

Studies show that visibility and education reduce prejudice—something LGBT History Month achieves in spades. It’s a month where allies can learn, communities can heal, and individuals can find strength in their shared heritage. Imagine a world where every person feels seen and valued—that’s the vision this observance pushes forward.


So, what’s a good call to action? It’s simple yet profound: engage, learn, and amplify.

Attend an event in your area, read up on an LGBT pioneer, or post about it online with hashtags like #LGBTHistoryMonth or #PrideInThePast. Small steps ripple outward, fostering a culture of acceptance.

As Rodney Wilson once said, “We are not just celebrating history; we are making it.” Let’s keep that momentum going.

LGBT History Month matters because it reminds us that progress isn’t accidental—it’s built by people who dared to stand up. It’s a month of joy, reflection, and unity, proving that when we honor our past, we pave the way for a brighter future. Join the celebration this October and be part of something transformative.

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CNN’s David Culver: Transcending Borders and Global Issues

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David Culver of CNN exemplifies the essence of a true global citizen through his impactful journalism and compassionate storytelling.


New York, N.Y. David Culver of CNN exemplifies the essence of a true global citizen through his impactful journalism and compassionate storytelling. His work is characterized by an ability to transcend borders, presenting global issues with clarity, empathy, and insight.

Whether reporting from China, Latin America, or covering major international events, Culver brings an authentic, thoughtful perspective to each story.

His language skills and cultural awareness enable him to navigate complex geopolitical landscapes with ease, making his reports both informative and accessible to a wide audience.

Culver’s coverage during critical moments, such as the COVID-19 pandemic, showcased his dedication to providing balanced, in-depth journalism while giving a voice to those directly affected.

His commitment to illuminating the human side of global events fosters understanding and connection between diverse communities worldwide.

He approaches his work with curiosity and respect, embodying the principles of inclusivity and mutual respect that define a global citizen. His efforts contribute to a more informed and connected world, making him a standout journalist on the international stage.

CNN’s David Culver: Transcend Borders, Presenting Global Issues (Sept. 23, 2024)


Family Charities to Celebrate 25 Years – at Asia Society NYC


Raising, Supporting & Educating Young Global Leaders – Silver Anniversary


New York, N.Y. The Board of Directors of Orphans International Worldwide and the James Jay Dudley Luce Foundation have announced plans to celebrate their twenty-fifth anniversary this autumn at New York’s Asia Society. Tickets: here

“Twenty-five years ago, driven by the inspiration of my adoption of an infant from Indonesia and my mother, a child psychologist, we established our first home for children in Indonesia, thus giving birth to Orphans International,” Jim Luce states.

“Influenced by the teachings of my college professor father, the J. Luce Foundation emerged, aligning with our joint mission of Raising, Supporting & Educating Young Global Leaders over the past two decades,” Luce adds.

A commemoration of lands and people our charities have collaborated with including Bangladesh, Canada, China, Colombia, the Dominican Republic, Ghana, Greece, Guyana, Haiti, India, Indonesia, Israel, Jamaica, Japan, Liberia, Malawi, Myanmar, Nepal, Pakistan, Palestine, the Philippines, Peru, Sri Lanka, Taiwan, Tanzania, Tibet, Ukraine, and Vietnam.

Jim Luce with orphaned children outside Lomé in Togo, West Africa, 2008.

The theme of this 25th anniversary evening will be ‘Peace is possible even in the face of senseless violence. Young global leadership embraces nonviolent conflict resolution.’

Highlighting the event will be the presentation of the prestigious Claire Boothe Luce Award for Public Service, alongside the Luce 24 Under 24 Recognition Awards.

The collective efforts of Orphans International and the J. Luce Foundation have empowered youth and enriched communities globally, as well as here in New York City, raising over two million dollars and impacting the lives of over two thousand young individuals.

Renown architect Noushin Ehsan, AIA states, “I am honored to have been selected as a recipient of The James Jay Dudley Luce Foundation’s 2024 Lifetime Achievement Award. I look forward to celebrating with such remarkable individuals dedicated to making a positive global impact.”

The Silver Anniversary Reception will take place in the Luce Penthouse of the Asia Society, situated on Park Avenue at 70th Street, New York City. A 30-second spot (below) has been created to publicize the event, courtesy of Triumph Communications. Business of national attire is encouraged for the occasion.

The event will be held in the Henry Luce Penthouse of the Asia Society.

“This is a significant milestone for us,” Luce says. “As are assembling our Host Committee and extending invitations to public and diplomatic officials, and we ask our friends to confirm via email or text at 347-316-7087.”

The original sculpture of The Knotted Gun also known as “Non-Violence” was created by Swedish artist Carl Fredrik Reuterswärd, a friend of John Lennon‘s family. Reuterswärd created this piece of art after Lennon’s tragic death as he wanted to honor the singer’s vision of a peaceful world.

A 30-second spot has been created to publicize the event, courtesy of Triumph Communications.

Awards

Awardees are still being invited but already include a member of the New York City Council and two college presidents.

The awards are as follows:

  • 2024 Lifetime Achievement Award
  • 2024 Claire Boothe Luce Award for Public Service
  • 2024 Commander Stephen Bleecker Luce Award
  • 2024 Humanitarian of the Year Award
  • 2024 Artists-in-Residence
  • 2024 Luce 24 Under 24 Recognition Award
  • Quarter Century Global Officers Recognition Award
  • Quarter Century Graduate Role Models
  • Quarter Century Global Leadership Role Models

Past Awards Recipients include: H.E. Haya Rashed Al Khalifa (Bahrain), H.S.H. Prince Albert (Monaco), Imam Shamsi Ali (Indonesia), Prof. Lenni Benson (N.Y. Law School), H.E. Catherine Boura (Greece), Danielle Duret, M.D. (Haiti), Meera Teresa Gandhi (India), Hon. Benjamin A. Gilman, Prince Manvendra Singh Gohil (India), Cindy Hsu, Hon. Jeremiah Hyacinth (St. Lucia), Princess Khaliya Aga Khan, H.E. Amb. Dr. Palitha Kohona (Sri Lanka), Dr. Judy Kuriansky (Columbia University), H.E. Hon. Li Baodong (China), Kevin McGovern, Rear Adm. Michael Alfultis, Hon. Carolyn Maloney, Hon. Geneive Brown Metzger LLD (Jamaica), Taku Nishimae (Japan), Hon. Mitzi Perdue, and Hon. Jumaane Williams.

Tickets. VIP: $250, Regular $125, Student/YGL** $75. Reserved cocktail tables (for three) available at $1,000.

Program: 6-7pm Meet & Greet, Red Carpet/photos, videos, vodka tasting; 7-8pm speeches & entertainment; 8-9pm awards.

Global Heroes: In the Initial Report of Orphans International Worldwide (1999), the founder wrote, “Without saints, secular or divine, sanctity can too easily be viewed as mere abstraction. Our children need heroes. The courage of Mahatma Gandhi and the brilliance of Albert Einstein make sainthood a reality for us all.”

In our Initial Report, Luce called for 36 real-life saints to serve as role models for the children of OIW as part of the process of Raising Global Leaders. These global heroes included:

Mahatma Gandhi, Oscar Romero, The Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Katharine Drexel, Dorothy Day, Woodrow Wilson, Albert Schweitzer, Martin Luther King Jr., Mother Teresa, Desmond Tutu, Aung San Suu Kyi, Nelson Mandela, Yitzhak Rabin, Pearl S. Buck, Menachem Begin, Heinrich Böll, Willy Brandt, Albert Camus, Winston Churchill, Albert Einstein, T.S. Eliot, Gabriel García Márquez, Dag Hammarskjöld, Ernest Hemingway, Herman Hesse, Yasunari Kawabata, Rudyard Kipling, Le Duc Tho, Sinclair Lewis, Thomas Mann, Eugene O’Neil, Anwar Sadat, Jean-Paul Sartre, Eisaku Sato, Isaac Bashevis Singer, John Steinbeck, Rabindranath Tagore, and Elie Wiesel.

Projects

Past

  • Orphans International Worldwide homes & projects: Bali, Sulawesi, Sumatera, Sri Lanka, Haiti, Dominican Republic, and Tanzania
  • Orphans International Worldwide Global Standards
  • Luce Leadership Experience: Greece, Indonesia, Jamaica, India, Sri Lanka, and Haiti

Present

Future

Past venues for the family’s charities have included: Asia Society, Americas Society, China Institute, Cipriani, Columbia University, Consulate of Cuba, Consulate of India, Consulate of Jamaica, Consulate of Sri Lanka, Consulate of Indonesia, Cornell Club, Harvard Club, Home of Jim Luce, Home of Henry Luce III, Home of Peter Yarrow, El Museo del Barrio, National Arts Club, New York Yacht Club, Princeton Club, Russian Samovar, St. John’s Church, Skadden Arps, United Nations, University Club, Yale Club, Webster Hall, and White & Case.

Family Charities to Celebrate 25 Years – at Asia Society NYC (Sept. 20, 2024)


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Venezuela Rights Probe: ‘Unprecedented’ Repression


Arrests, sexual abuse and torture as just some of the methods used by the Government of President Nicolas Maduro to stay in power. Many were subjected to torture and other cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment, as well as sexual violence with reported electric shocks, beating with blunt objects, suffocation with plastic bags, immersion in cold water, and forced sleep deprivation.


New York, N.Y. — Violence used against opponents of the Venezuelan authorities has reached unprecedented levels, a top independent human rights probe alleged on Tuesday, citing arrests, sexual abuse, and torture as just some of the methods used by the Government of President Nicolas Maduro to stay in power.

In a new report, the Human Rights Council-mandated investigators described how security forces had raided dozens of homes of suspected critics of the Government “just using social media videos as the only evidence to arrest people”.

Violence and threats

Victims’ testimonies gathered either side of the disputed Presidential election on 28 July which returned Mr. Maduro to office for the third time pointed to “one of the most acute human rights crises in recent history,” the Independent International Fact-Finding Mission on Venezuela further maintained.

Speaking to journalists in Geneva, Marta Valiñas, Chair of the investigation, insisted that that its latest findings were “overwhelming: not only have there been no improvements, but the violations have intensified, reaching unprecedented levels of violence”.

The independent rights expert described “an intensification of the State’s repressive machinery” with regard to its critics which represented “a continuation of previous patterns” that the independent rights panel had already condemned as likely crimes against humanity.

Following the re-election of Mr. Maduro – whose victory announcement prompted widespread protests across Venezuela – Ms. Valiñas said that the probe had confirmed 25 fatalities.

Grisly findings

Most of the victims were “young people under 30 years old from popular neighbourhoods. There are two children among them,” she said. One of the deceased was a member of the Bolivarian National Guard, Ms. Valiñas noted, before adding that 24 “died from gunshot wounds [and] the other was beaten to death”.

The fact-finding mission’s latest report examines the human rights situation in Venezuela between September 2023 and August 2024. It points to a further deterioration of the rule of law following the presidential elections, while public authorities “have abandoned all semblance of independence”, leaving citizens “helpless” against the “arbitrary exercise” of power.

“We documented more than 40 cases in which the security forces entered private homes without warrants, just using social media videos as the only evidence to arrest people who they thought had participated in protests or who had expressed criticism in social media,” explained Francisco Cox Vial, Member of the fact-finding mission that was created by the Human Rights Council in 2019.

Children among those arrested

According to the independent investigators, more than 120 people were arrested in July in the context of opposition campaign events. In the first week of protests following the elections, based on figures released by the authorities, more than 2,000 people were detained.

Individuals included more than 100 children, some with disabilities, who faced accusations of terrorism and incitement to hatred and serious violations of due process, the investigators added.

“Of the people detained in this period, many were subjected to torture and other cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment, as well as sexual violence which was perpetrated against women and girls, but also against men with reported electric shocks, beating with blunt objects, suffocation with plastic bags, immersion in cold water and forced sleep deprivation,” said Patricia Tappatá Valdez, member of the fact-finding mission.

“We had been able to verify that at least 143 of these arrests involved members of seven opposition parties, including 66 leaders of political movements,” she noted.

According to the rights probe, from December 2023 to March 2024, at least 48 people were detained on the grounds of “so-called conspiracy theories” against the Government, with arrest warrants issued for others. The individuals included military personnel, human rights defenders, journalists, and political opposition representatives, the fact-finding mission said.

“We cannot ignore that these violations represent a clear and deliberate line of conduct by the authorities of politically motivated persecution,” said Mr. Cox Vial. “We have come to the conclusion that many of these allegations constitute crimes against humanity.”

U.N. General Assembly Demands Israel End ‘Unlawful Presence’ in Gaza


The resolution calls for Israel to comply with international law and withdraw its military forces, immediately cease all new settlement activity, evacuate all settlers from occupied land, and dismantle parts of the separation wall it constructed inside the occupied West Bank.


New York, N.Y. — The United Nations General Assembly on Wednesday voted overwhelmingly to adopt a resolution that demands that Israel “brings to an end without delay its unlawful presence” in the Occupied Palestinian Territory.

With a recorded vote of 124 nations in favor, 14 against, and 43 abstentions, the resolution calls for Israel to comply with international law and withdraw its military forces, immediately cease all new settlement activity, evacuate all settlers from occupied land, and dismantle parts of the separation wall it constructed inside the occupied West Bank.

The General Assembly further demanded that Israel return land and other “immovable property,” as well as all assets seized since the occupation began in 1967, and all cultural property and assets taken from Palestinians and Palestinian institutions.

The resolution also demands Israel allow all Palestinians displaced during the occupation to return to their place of origin and make reparation for the damage caused by its occupation.

The resolution stems from the advisory opinion issued by the International Court of Justice (ICJ) in July, in which the Court declared that Israel’s continued presence in the Territory “is unlawful,” and that “all States are under an obligation not to recognize” the decades-long occupation.

Threat to peace and security

The Assembly “strongly deplored the continued and total disregard and breaches” by the Government of Israel of its obligations under the U.N. Charter, international law and UN resolutions, stressing that such breaches “seriously threaten” regional and international peace and security.

It also recognized that Israel “must be held to account for any violations” of international law in the Occupied Palestinian Territory, including of international humanitarian and human rights laws.

The text says Israel “must bear the legal consequences of all its internationally wrongful acts, including by making reparation for the injury, including any damage, caused by such acts.”

The General Assembly highlighted the need for the establishment of an international mechanism for reparations to address damage, loss, or injury caused by Israel’s actions.

It also called for creating an international register of damage caused, to document evidence and related claims.

International conference

The resolution also includes a decision to convene an international conference during the Assembly’s current session to implement UN resolutions pertaining to the question of Palestine and the two-State solution for the achievement of a just, lasting and comprehensive peace in the Middle East.

Additionally, the Assembly requested the U.N. Secretary-General to present proposals for a mechanism to follow up on Israel’s violations of Article 3 of the International Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Racial Discrimination, as identified by the ICJ.

Article 3 refers to racial segregation and apartheid and the undertaking by International Convention’s States Parties to prevent, prohibit and eradicate all practices of this nature in territories under their jurisdiction.

Call on States

In its resolution, the General Assembly called upon all U.N. Member States to comply with their obligations under international law and take concrete steps to address Israel’s ongoing presence in the Occupied Palestinian Territory.

The Assembly urged States to refrain from recognizing Israel’s presence in the Territory as lawful and to ensure that they do not provide aid or assistance in maintaining the situation created by the occupation. This includes taking measures to prevent their nationals, companies, and entities under their jurisdiction from engaging in activities that support or sustain Israel’s occupation.

Additionally, the Assembly called on States to cease importing products originating from Israeli settlements and to halt the transfer of arms, munitions, and related equipment to Israel in cases where there are reasonable grounds to suspect they may be used in the Occupied Palestinian Territory.

Moreover, the resolution urged States to implement sanctions, such as travel bans and asset freezes, against individuals and entities involved in maintaining Israel’s unlawful presence in the Territory. This includes addressing issues related to settler violence and ensuring that those engaged in these activities face legal and financial consequences.

Adjournment

Finally, the Assembly temporarily adjourned its tenth emergency special session and authorized the President of the General Assembly to reconvene the session upon request from Member States.

The special session is a continuation of the tenth emergency special session of the General Assembly that last met in May amid the ongoing crisis in Gaza, during which it adopted a resolution, laying out additional rights for the State of Palestine’s participation in Assembly meetings.

That resolution did not grant Palestine the right to vote or put forward its candidature to U.N. Main Organs such as the Security Council or the Economic and Social Council (ECOSOC).

It also did not confer membership to the State of Palestine, which requires a specific recommendation from the Security Council.

Dear Child: German TV’s Dark Triumph in Suspense, Storytelling

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Set in the moody landscapes of North Rhine-Westphalia, the series transports viewers into a world of abduction, trauma, and mystery.


Berlin, Germany — Dear Child (Liebes Kind), the latest German series, is a masterclass in suspense and psychological intensity. As German television continues to rise in quality, competing with productions from the U.K., South Korea, and the Netherlands, Dear Child stands out with its gripping plot and expertly crafted characters.

Photo: Fixed rules, fixed times: Lena, Jonathan, and Hannah in Dear Child. Credit: Netflix.

Set in the moody landscapes of North Rhine-Westphalia, the series transports viewers into a world of abduction, trauma, and mystery. The story revolves around a woman who escapes captivity, only to unravel deeper layers of horror as police and family struggle to piece together the truth.

Unlike the dark humor of Kleo, Dear Child takes a purely dark and suspenseful approach, exploring the psychological toll of confinement and the power dynamics within the harrowing situation.

Credit: Netflix.

What makes Dear Child truly remarkable is its flawless execution, from the crisp and clear German dialogue to the atmospheric cinematography that captures both the eerie stillness and bursts of emotional intensity.

This series is a testament to Germany’s growing prowess in producing world-class TV dramas. If you’re a fan of psychological thrillers, Dear Child is a must-watch.

Dear Child: German TV’s Dark Triumph in Suspense and Storytelling (Sept. 17, 2024)


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Celebrating Life and Legacy of RIVAA Gallery Founder Arline Jacoby


Paying tribute to her pioneering leadership, unstoppable creative spirit, and special legacy for the local community.


New York, N.Y. Arline Jacoby was the founding president of the Roosevelt Island Visual Artists Association and led the way in establishing RIVAA Gallery which opened in 2002.

Jacoby was remembered in September 2024 by family and friends at RIVAA Gallery on Roosevelt Island, New York City. A commemorative plaque was unveiled on the RIVAA bench as a tribute to her pioneering leadership, unstoppable creative spirit, and special legacy for the local community.

Arlene was born in 1924 and would have been a century old this year. She left us at 98.

Celebrating Life, Legacy of RIVAA Gallery Founder Arline Jacoby (Sept. 18, 2024)

Jinnah’s Legacy: Championing Justice, Equality on Global Stage


Jinnah’s legacy calls us to work toward a world that uplifts humanity, connects goodness across nations, and strives for justice and equality for all people, regardless of race, religion, or nationality. Jinnah’s life remains a testament to the power of visionary leadership in shaping a better, more peaceful world.


New York, N.Y. Muhammad Ali Jinnah stands as a towering figure in world history, not just as the founder of Pakistan but as a visionary global citizen whose influence transcended borders. As we explore Jinnah’s legacy, we see a leader deeply committed to justice, equality, and the empowerment of marginalized voices—a man who sought to reshape the world based on the principles of peace, self-determination, and international cooperation.

Born in 1876, Jinnah was educated in Bombay and later in London, where he trained as a barrister. His global outlook was shaped by his exposure to the diverse cultures and political ideologies of the time. While he rose to prominence as a leader in India’s independence movement, his focus was never confined to the subcontinent. He understood the complexities of colonialism, oppression, and the desire for freedom, making him a champion of human rights far beyond his immediate environment.

Jinnah’s work as the leader of the All-India Muslim League reflected his profound understanding of the cultural, religious, and political diversity of the world. He advocated for the rights of Muslims in India, not as a narrow nationalist, but as someone who believed in the right of all peoples to have autonomy and self-respect. His call for the creation of Pakistan was rooted in this global vision—a nation where Muslims could live freely and practice their faith, contributing to the global tapestry of nations based on equality and mutual respect.

What makes Jinnah truly remarkable is his steadfast belief in the importance of dialogue and diplomacy.

He frequently engaged with world leaders, emphasizing peaceful coexistence and cooperation. In many ways, his work prefigured the global movements for decolonization and self-governance that would sweep across Asia, Africa, and the Middle East in the decades following World War II. Jinnah saw a world where nations could emerge from the shackles of colonialism and build societies based on justice, fairness, and the rule of law—values that remain central to global citizenship today.

Even in his personal life, Jinnah was known for his cosmopolitanism. He spoke multiple languages, maintained friendships with people of various cultures and backgrounds, and upheld a vision of Pakistan as a modern, progressive nation.

His famous speech on August 11, 1947, just days before Pakistan’s independence, laid out his vision of a pluralistic society where people of all faiths could live harmoniously. “You are free; you are free to go to your temples, you are free to go to your mosques, or to any other place of worship in this State of Pakistan,” he said—a message that resonates with today’s values of inclusivity and respect for diversity.

As we reflect on Muhammad Ali Jinnah’s life, we recognize his role not just as the father of Pakistan but as a leader who embodied the best qualities of a global citizen. His legacy calls us to work toward a world that uplifts humanity, connects goodness across nations, and strives for justice and equality for all people, regardless of race, religion, or nationality. Jinnah’s life remains a testament to the power of visionary leadership in shaping a better, more peaceful world.

Jinnah’s Legacy: Championing Justice, Equality on a Global Stage (Sept. 17, 2024)


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Dating, Health, Honesty: Should I Share STD Status with My Partner?



Dr. Sami –

Over the summer, I slept with a number of people and unfortunately picked up an STD. Now I’m back at college and dating one person exclusively. I didn’t know about the STD until just recently, and we have been sleeping together without protection for several weeks. We were not dating exclusively over the summer, but I also don’t want to look like a slut. Do I need to admit to the problem or do you think I can just ignore it?  

Worried (Sick) in New Jersey

Dear Worried (Sick),

You’re facing a delicate situation, one that involves both your health and the trust you share with your current partner. It’s completely understandable to feel conflicted about how to approach this, but honesty and responsibility should be your top priorities.

  1. Health and Responsibility First

The first thing to acknowledge is that this situation involves both your well-being and that of your partner. If you have an STD and you’re engaging in sexual activity without protection, your partner is at risk, even if you haven’t been aware of your condition for long. The responsible thing is to address it openly, not only for the sake of your health but also for your partner’s.

It’s important to put your health first, but doing so also means ensuring that your partner isn’t unknowingly exposed to a potential risk. Even though it might feel uncomfortable, informing them about the situation shows respect for their body and their right to make informed decisions.

  1. Addressing Your Fears of Judgment

It’s completely normal to feel apprehensive about how your partner might react, especially given societal judgments surrounding sexual activity. But remember that being honest about an STD doesn’t define you or your worth. Health issues like this happen, and addressing them responsibly shows maturity, care, and consideration.

If you fear looking promiscuous, keep in mind that you’re not obligated to share every detail of your sexual history. What’s most important here is the present: that you’ve identified a health concern, are taking responsibility for it, and are being honest with your partner. That speaks volumes about your character.

  1. How to Approach the Conversation

This conversation may be awkward, but honesty is the foundation of a trusting and respectful relationship. It’s crucial to approach the discussion thoughtfully. Here’s one way to bring it up:

“Hey, I want to talk to you about something important. I just found out that I have an STD, and I didn’t realize it until recently. I didn’t know until now, but I want to be open with you because your health matters to me. I’m getting treatment, and I think it’s important we take the necessary steps to protect both of us moving forward.”

This approach keeps the focus on your current relationship, your concern for your partner’s well-being, and the fact that you’re taking responsible action.

  1. Taking Precautionary Steps

Even if you haven’t yet had this conversation, it’s important to start taking precautionary measures right away. You should definitely use protection until you’ve had this discussion and both of you can agree on how to move forward. This will not only protect your partner but also show that you are committed to handling this responsibly while you address the issue.

  1. What If They React Poorly?

While honesty is crucial, it’s also important to understand that your partner may need time to process this information. If they feel hurt or confused, be patient and give them space to come to terms with it. If they respond with anger or judgment, it’s also an opportunity to consider whether the relationship is built on trust and mutual respect. Relationships can face challenges, but how you navigate them defines the future.

Final Thoughts

This situation is uncomfortable, but ignoring it could hurt both your health and your relationship in the long run. By taking responsibility, being open, and ensuring you both prioritize safety, you’ll build trust and navigate this situation with integrity.

You’ve got this, and your health and your relationship deserve the honesty you can give.

With Compassion,
Dr. Sami Milan


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Turning the Boy Scouts Coed: How I Became an Eagle Scout


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New York, N.Y. — [draft]

by Sydney Ireland, as told to Katharine Whittemore; photo by Maria Stenzel

In October 2020 Sydney Ireland ’23 became part of the first cohort of young women to earn the Eagle Scout rank from the Boy Scouts of America, now called the BSA. Her Eagle Scout project was “Connect a Vet with a Pet.” Here she is, in her own words.

Since I was 4 years old, I wanted to be part of the Boy Scouts. My brother was a Boy Scout. He’s a couple of years older than me, and I followed him around until I was about 11. I unofficially achieved the highest award in the Cub Scouts, which is the younger program of the Boy Scouts, but then I wasn’t able to continue officially. So I wanted to change that.

My family and I wrote resolutions and created a petition. The resolutions got passed by the National Organization for Women—New York City and the New York Presbytery. From there we created a Change.org petition that now has over 10,000 signatures, asking the Boy Scouts to open to young women.

I was young and didn’t really think to join the Girl Scouts, because I’d found a program that I liked, and because I was with my brother. I always wanted to do everything he did. Almost every other country in the world has coed scouting. And the opportunities that come from being in the Boy Scouts are unmatched. The Eagle award opens so many doors.

I had to do two Eagle projects. The Boy Scouts wouldn’t count the first one [because she was not an official Scout when she did the work]. In my district, New York, I’m one of two women in the first cohort.

Turning the Boy Scouts Coed: How I Became an Eagle Scout


New Federal Rules Ensure Mental Health Coverage Equals Physical Care


Landmark Move: Biden Enforces Equal Coverage for Mental and Physical Health Care


Washington, D.C. — In a landmark move, the Biden administration has finalized rules that will compel health insurers to cover mental health care on par with physical health conditions.

This long-anticipated decision is a critical step toward ensuring that mental health care, from anxiety and depression to addiction, is no longer treated as a second-class concern.

For too long, insurance providers have skimped on mental health services, leaving countless individuals without access to necessary treatments.

The new rules aim to close this gap, mandating that insurers offer the same level of coverage for mental health care as they do for physical ailments.

This move reinforces the Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act of 2008, which sought to prevent discrimination in insurance coverage for mental health services.

Despite this, many insurers have found loopholes, often placing restrictions on mental health treatments that are not seen with physical health conditions.

As the Biden administration’s plan is rolled out, we will be watching closely to ensure insurers comply. This is more than a legal victory—it is a victory for millions of Americans struggling with mental health challenges.

By ensuring equitable access to care, the administration is not only uplifting individuals and families but also strengthening our nation’s mental health as a whole. This is a critical step in connecting goodness and uplifting humanity.

New Federal Rules Ensure Mental Health Coverage Equals Physical Care (Sept. 11, 2024)


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The Perfect Couple and the Rise of Quality in U.S. Television

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How HBO and Netflix Are Upping the Game: The Case of The Perfect Couple


New York, N.Y. — For years, we have been critical of American television content, favoring the nuanced and intricate productions from British and South Korean studios.

Yet, we must acknowledge that U.S. programming, particularly from platforms like HBO and Netflix, has seen an impressive rise in quality over recent years. The evolving landscape of American television shows an increased investment in sophisticated storytelling, diverse characters, and dynamic plots that rival international productions.

A prime example of this shift is The Perfect Couple. The series combines the charm of Angela Lansbury’s Murder, She Wrote with the lifestyle perfectionism of Martha Stewart and the clever, suspense-filled plotting reminiscent of Agatha Christie.

This engaging blend creates a gripping mystery with well-drawn characters and unexpected twists that hold viewers’ attention in the tradition of the best of both American and international storytelling.

By blending familiar cultural icons with contemporary narrative techniques, The Perfect Couple stands as proof that American programming is no longer just chasing trends. Instead, it has become a force for innovation, able to produce content that resonates on a global scale.

HBO and Netflix, in particular, continue to push boundaries, making American television more sophisticated and competitive than ever before.

The Perfect Couple and the Rise of Quality in U.S. Television (Sept. 11, 2024)


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Bollywood to Hollywood: Rise of Perfect Couple’s Ishaan Khatter


The Perfect Couple is an American mystery drama miniseries starring Nicole Kidman, Liev Schreiber, Eve Hewson, and Dakota Fanning. It is an adaptation of the 2018 novel of the same name by Elin Hilderbrand and premiered on September 5, 2024, on Netflix


New York, N.Y. — In Netflix‘s The Perfect Couple, Ishaan Khatter steals the show with his effortless blend of Bollywood charm and Hollywood sophistication.

Playing Shooter Dival, Benji Winbury’s best man and childhood friend, Khatter brings a mysterious and intense energy to his role, adding depth and intrigue to the ensemble cast.

Known for his breakout performances in films like Beyond the Clouds and Pippa, Ishaan Khatter has made a name for himself as one of India’s most promising young actors.

His Hollywood-level good looks and magnetic presence captivate audiences, making him a standout talent not only in India but on the global stage.

Off-screen, Khatter exemplifies what it means to be a global citizen.

He uses his platform to raise awareness on pressing social issues, including climate change and gender equality, and actively engages in philanthropic efforts that uplift marginalized communities.

With his strong commitment to social justice and a career that bridges Bollywood and Hollywood, Khatter is not just an actor; he’s a leader and an inspiration to fans worldwide.

His trajectory from Indian cinema to international stardom embodies the essence of modern global leadership, connecting goodness and uplifting humanity through his work.

Bollywood to Hollywood: Rise of Perfect Couple’s Ishaan Khatter (Sept. 10, 2024)


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Forgotten Portrait Found in Maine Attic Fetches $1.4 Million

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This remarkable story reminds us of the hidden value that can sometimes be found in the most unexpected places


New York, N.Y. We were all in awe when an unassuming portrait, tucked away for decades in the attic of a Maine home, fetched a jaw-dropping $1.4 million at auction. What began as a simple cleaning project for a family became the discovery of a lifetime when they stumbled upon the dusty artwork, completely unaware of its worth.

The portrait was found behind a pile of old furniture and forgotten heirlooms, wrapped in cloth.

Curious about its origins, the family sought the help of an art historian, who immediately recognized that this painting could be significant.

After months of research, it was determined that the portrait was an 18th-century masterpiece, painted by an artist once lost to history but now considered a crucial figure in early American art.

The news quickly spread, drawing attention from collectors and galleries worldwide.

When the painting was put up for auction, the competition was fierce, with bids far exceeding the family’s expectations.

Finally, the hammer dropped at an astonishing $1.4 million, changing the lives of the unsuspecting family forever.

As we reflect on this remarkable story, it reminds us of the hidden value that can sometimes be found in the most unexpected places. This once-forgotten portrait now stands as a testament to the enduring power of art and the surprises history continues to reveal.

Forgotten Portrait Found in Maine Attic Fetches $1.4 Million (Sept. 10. 2024)

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Racist Lies About Haitian Immigrants and Missing Pets


Eating Cats and Dogs: Baseless Accusations Resurface: Trump, Vance, and the Dangerous Stereotyping of Haitians


From Ohio to the Debate Stage: How JD Vance and Trump Fueled a Racist Trope

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania — During the heated debate between Donald Trump and Kamala Harris, a disturbing and deeply racist claim re-emerged into public discourse. Trump, never one to shy away from incendiary remarks, suggested that Haitian immigrants in the United States were responsible for the disappearance of pets, alleging they were eating dogs and cats.

This baseless and dangerous accusation, once relegated to the darkest corners of social media, was thrust into the national spotlight as Trump made it a central talking point in his attempt to dehumanize the Haitian community.

What makes this even more alarming is that the origins of this false rumor can be traced back to Vice Presidential candidate JD Vance, who represents Ohio. Several months ago, Vance began stirring up these claims on Twitter, stating that his office had received numerous calls from concerned constituents alleging that their pets were disappearing, with Haitian immigrants supposedly to blame.

He further amplified this rhetoric by claiming that the community was behind these incidents, feeding into an age-old narrative of fear and xenophobia. Vance’s inflammatory tweets were soon followed by calls for investigations, and though no evidence has surfaced, the damage to the reputation of Haitian immigrants was done.

Republican Vice Presidential candidate J.D. Vance: ‘Haitian migrants eating dogs and cats.’

Historically, this type of anti-immigrant propaganda has been used to stoke fear and divide communities. We’ve seen it before—against Chinese immigrants in the late 19th and early 20th centuries.

As Chinese laborers moved to the U.S., contributing to the economy by working in mines and railroads, a wave of nativist sentiment targeted them with outlandish claims.

Among these accusations was the idea that Chinese people were eating American pets—pigeons, dogs, and cats—and posed a threat to American society.

These harmful myths laid the groundwork for the Chinese Exclusion Act of 1882, a blatantly racist piece of legislation that banned Chinese immigration for decades.

What began as slander in the media transformed into law, excluding a population from the country simply because of lies designed to portray them as inhuman.

Today, Haitian immigrants in the U.S. are facing a similar wave of vilification. Many Haitian immigrants are legally residing in the country, while some, due to desperate conditions back home, may be undocumented. Haiti has faced years of instability, corruption, violence, and natural disasters.

Republican Presidential candidate Donald Trump: ‘Haitian migrants eating dogs and cats.’

Earthquakes, hurricanes, political turmoil, and gang violence have left many Haitians with no choice but to flee their homeland.

For those who have come to America seeking a better life, they now find themselves unfairly painted as criminals in the eyes of some—thanks to figures like JD Vance and Donald Trump.

The idea that Haitian immigrants are somehow responsible for the disappearance of pets not only dehumanizes this community, but it also weaponizes racist tropes to stoke fear and distrust.

According to estimates, nearly 1 million Haitians live in the United States. The overwhelming majority are law-abiding residents contributing to society, yet they are now being cast as a threat based on an absurd, racist lie.

This isn’t the first time we’ve seen this tactic deployed, nor will it be the last. Throughout history, whenever a marginalized group has been painted as a threat, it’s often through narratives that describe them as less than human. Hitler, during his rise to power, repeatedly used dehumanization to target Jews. In his speeches, he described them as vermin, a plague that needed to be eradicated.

His carefully crafted rhetoric paved the way for the atrocities of the Holocaust, where millions of Jews were murdered after being portrayed as enemies of society. By portraying an entire population as unworthy of human compassion, totalitarian regimes have justified violence, exclusion, and genocide.

Donald Trump’s attempt to link the Haitian diaspora to the disappearance of pets echoes this strategy. When he speaks of immigrants as threats, as people so different from “us” that they would even eat our beloved dogs and cats, he is invoking the same kind of fear-based dehumanization. These are not just harmless words; they have the power to shape perceptions, to inflame hatred, and to justify harmful policies.

As JD Vance and Donald Trump continue to perpetuate these dangerous lies, we must recognize their playbook for what it is. It’s a tool of division, designed to pit us against one another, to make us see our neighbors—particularly those who look or sound different from us—as the enemy.

But we have a choice. We can either buy into these harmful narratives, or we can stand together, as global citizens, and uplift the dignity of all people, no matter where they come from or what their story is.

The Haitian community in the U.S., like so many immigrant communities before it, is here to seek a better life. They are not here to steal our pets, but to build their futures.

In times of such blatant dehumanization, we must resist the temptation to believe the worst in people and instead connect goodness, reaffirming our shared humanity. After all, history has shown us what happens when we fail to do so. Let’s ensure we don’t allow history to repeat itself.

Racist Lies About Haitian Immigrants and Missing Pets (Sept. 10, 2024)


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TAGS: Donald Trump, JD Vance, Kamala Harris, Haitian immigrants, racism, Chinese Exclusion Act, anti-immigrant rhetoric, Haiti, immigration, Central Park, missing pets, debate 2024, xenophobia, social media

Ron Kim: China Tied to Efforts to Topple Him in Democratic Primary

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Foreign Influence? Queens Pol Ron Kim Claims Chinese Communist Party Tried to Steal New York Assembly Seat in June Primary Days After Ex-Hochul Aide’s Arrest as Foreign Agent


New York, N.Y. — We must remain vigilant in safeguarding the integrity of our democratic processes, especially in an age when foreign interference can threaten the very fabric of local governance.

Queens State Assemblyman Ron Kim.

Queens state Assemblyman Ron Kim is raising alarm after claiming that groups tied to the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) attempted to overthrow him in the June Democratic primary in New York. This comes just days after the arrest of a former aide to Governor Kathy Hochul on charges of acting as an unregistered foreign agent, adding a chilling dimension to Kim’s claims.

Ron Kim, who represents a predominantly Asian district in Queens, believes that efforts were made to unseat him in the primary, threatening the democratic integrity of his position.

Kim asserts that these groups attempted to “steal” his seat, seeing him as an obstacle to their influence over New York politics. While the full scope of this alleged interference is still being explored, Kim’s accusation marks a serious charge that reflects the growing concerns around foreign involvement in U.S. elections.

The arrest of the former Hochul aide only days before Kim’s statement strengthens the argument that foreign agents, possibly tied to the CCP, may be attempting to influence the political landscape in America.

Kim, who has long been an outspoken advocate for human rights and a critic of China’s authoritarian regime, has made it clear that these attempts will not go unnoticed. “We need to stay vigilant against any attempt to undermine our democracy,” Kim emphasized.

This situation reflects a broader conversation around the ways foreign powers are looking to exert control, even in local elections. We, as engaged citizens and leaders, must stand united in protecting our democratic institutions from foreign interference, particularly in communities that may be targeted due to their ethnic ties.

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TAGS: Ron Kim, Chinese Communist Party, foreign agent, election interference, Kathy Hochul, New York Assembly, Queens politics, Democratic primary

New Wave of Chaplains Addressing ‘Climate Grief’ for Eco-Anxious


As Climate Despair Grows, Chaplains Offer Emotional Support


New York, N.Y. — As we grapple with the overwhelming effects of climate change—raging wildfires, devastating floods, and relentless heat waves—a new form of grief has emerged. Many of us feel a deep sense of loss for the planet we once knew, for the ecosystems vanishing, and for the uncertain future ahead.

In response to this growing emotional burden, a new kind of chaplain has begun to rise: the Climate Chaplain. These chaplains specialize in helping individuals and communities process “ç,” offering spiritual and emotional support to those overwhelmed by the environmental crisis.

Climate chaplains come from diverse religious and secular backgrounds.

They are unified by a mission to provide a space where people can express their anxiety, fear, and despair over the changing planet. They acknowledge that traditional forms of grief counseling often don’t address the existential dread many feel about the future of humanity and the Earth itself.

With the rise of climate activism and awareness, climate chaplains serve as emotional anchors, helping people navigate not just the physical impacts of climate change but also its psychological toll.

As we work to uplift humanity, we recognize that addressing climate change is not only a physical battle but also a deeply emotional one.

These chaplains are helping us connect our grief to collective action, emphasizing that processing our sadness is the first step in finding the resilience to fight for our planet’s future.

By offering both comfort and motivation, they remind us that in the face of despair, there is still hope, and through global leadership, we can connect goodness in a way that addresses our shared future.

New Wave of Chaplains Addressing ‘Climate Grief’ for Eco-Anxious (Sept. 8, 2024)


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Tags: climate change, chaplains, mental health, eco-anxiety, climate grief, resilience, global leadership

Roosevelt Island Dog Owner Threatened: “I Will Kill You and Your Dog!”


“I’ll get you, my pretty – and your little dog, too!”


New York, N.Y. – The Wicked Witch of the West may have terrorized Dorothy in The Wizard of Oz, but this week on Roosevelt Island, it seemed a new ‘Wicked Witch’ was targeting a different little dog.

In The Wizard of Oz, Miss Almira Gulch, portrayed by Margaret Hamilton, famously threatens Dorothy’s dog, Toto, with the line, “I’ll get you, my pretty – and your little dog, too!” After a run-in between Miss Gulch and Toto, the small dog escapes and leads Dorothy on a journey to Oz. The Wicked Witch of the West, strikingly similar to Miss Gulch, resumes her menacing threats in the magical land.

But Toto wasn’t the only dog dodging threats.

A dog resembling Toto slipped from its leash on Roosevelt Island this week to play with another dog. Unfortunately, this innocent moment was interrupted by the other, larger dog’s owner who shouted, “Stop him, or I’ll kick him! Get him away or I will kick him!”

Unfazed by this NYC version of the Wicked Witch, the dog’s owner and good Samaritan, implored, “Why do you need to be such a bitch?” and followed up with a sharp, “You are very unpleasant.” The retort from the agitated woman? “I’m sorry you feel that way!” – hardly a comeback that diffused the tension.

What followed was more chilling than a Halloween trick.

Shortly thereafter, the woman’s husband, caught on the dog owner’s Ring video camera, pounded on the door, fuming, “You called my wife a bitch?!” The dog owner denied it on a technicality, but the man wasn’t backing down. “Yes, you called my wife a bitch!” he screamed. “I will kill you – and your dogs!”

Shaken but not intimidated, the dog owner shut the door. Adding a petty twist, the man stole a “Dog Dads” magnet from the door before walking away, all captured on film.

Disturbed by the escalating threats, the dog owner filed a police report with the New York City Police Department, charging the man with Felony Intimidation and Felony Criminal Threats, which includes “Threat of physical injury to another person or serious damage to property (including animals),” along with a charge of Petit Larceny for the stolen magnet.

The police acted swiftly, interviewing both parties.

The dog owner was advised to hold onto the leash more tightly in the future, the woman was warned against threatening to harm animals, and her husband was informed that intimidation, criminal threats, and theft would not be tolerated on Roosevelt Island.

It seems even outside Oz, we still have to deal with wicked witches and their henchmen—but this time, justice had the final word.

Roosevelt Island Dog Owner Threatened: “I Will Kill You and Your Dogs!” (Sept. 7, 2024)

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Tags: Roosevelt Island, dog incident, criminal threats, NYPD, neighbor dispute, animal rights, pet owner safety

Rabbi Michael Lerner, Progressive Icon, Passes Away at 81


Rabbi Michael Lerner’s life was a testament to the power of faith, resilience, and progressive action. We carry forward his call to connect goodness, foster peace, and strive for justice.May his memory be a blessing, and may his spirit continue to guide us toward a more just and humane world.


New York, N.Y. — We mourn the loss of Rabbi Michael Lerner (1943-2024), a towering figure in progressive thought, who passed away at the age of 81. As the founder and editor of Tikkun magazine, he became a central voice for those striving to merge spirituality, social justice, and Jewish tradition. His life’s work sought to uplift humanity through compassion, moral courage, and radical inclusivity.

Rabbi Lerner’s vision of a world rooted in love, justice, and kindness resonated with humane and progressive people across America and around the globe. Born in 1943, he dedicated his life to challenging societal norms that perpetuated injustice and inequality.

He was a passionate advocate for peace, consistently speaking out against war, poverty, and environmental degradation, while amplifying the call for a two-state solution in Israel-Palestine. His leadership and activism inspired countless people to become change agents in their communities, working toward a future defined by empathy and ethical leadership.

Through Tikkun, Rabbi Lerner created a space where progressive Jews—and people of all backgrounds—could find a platform for critical dialogue on issues ranging from race and gender to economic justice and climate change. While his views were sometimes polarizing, his unwavering commitment to healing the world left an indelible mark on the Jewish left and beyond.

Rabbi Lerner was more than an activist—he was a visionary who believed in the transformative power of love and empathy as forces for societal change. His legacy will continue to inspire those of us committed to the ongoing work of “tikkun olam,” the Jewish concept of repairing the world.

Rabbi Michael Lerner’s life was a testament to the power of faith, resilience, and progressive action. We carry forward his call to connect goodness, foster peace, and strive for justice.

May his memory be a blessing, and may his spirit continue to guide us toward a more just and humane world.

Rabbi Michael Lerner, Progressive Icon, Passes Away at 81 (Sept. 1, 2024)

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Our Verdict: Why ‘River to Sea’ Stands Against Two-State Solution


While we wholeheartedly support the creation of a Palestinian state, consistent with the U.S. government’s Two-State Solution, the slogan ‘From the river to the sea’ fundamentally opposes this vision.


New York, N.Y. — On one hand, a quick glance at the map makes clear why critics argue that this slogan advocates for the erasure of Israel. It suggests that Palestinians should reclaim all land between the Jordan River and the Mediterranean Sea, effectively calling for the dissolution of the Israeli state. In this light, many interpret the phrase as a denial of Israel’s right to exist—inciting hatred or even violence against Jews.

Supporters of the slogan, however, assert that it symbolizes aspirations for Palestinian self-determination, justice, and freedom.

For them, it represents a demand for equal rights and an end to Israeli occupation, not necessarily a call for Israel’s destruction.

But this interpretation doesn’t align with reality.

While we wholeheartedly support the creation of a Palestinian state, consistent with the U.S. government’s Two-State Solution, the slogan ‘From the river to the sea’ fundamentally opposes this vision.

It advocates for the complete elimination of Israel, thereby making peace through mutual recognition impossible.

Determining whether this phrase constitutes hate speech hinges on the context, speaker intent, and audience reaction. The balance between free speech and the potential for language to incite violence is delicate, making this a complex and deeply subjective matter.

After thorough deliberation, our editorial board concludes that while “From the river to the sea” may not be inherently hate speech, it is politically untenable for global citizens committed to peace in the Middle East.

Our Verdict: Why ‘River to Sea’ Stands Against Two-State Solution (Sept. 5, 2024)


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Tags: Israel, Palestine, Two-State Solution, Hate Speech, Middle East, Global Politics, Human Rights

77-Year-Old Elton John Faces Health Scare, Battles Eye Infection


We live in an age, in an era where there is so much negativity, there is so much violence in the world, there is so much unrest and people are at war, that I wanted to promote the word love. – Elton John


New York, N.Y. — As we reflect on the remarkable career of Elton John, it’s hard to imagine that the man who has captivated us for over five decades with his vibrant energy and unforgettable performances is now facing one of the most daunting challenges of his life.

At 77, Elton revealed that he has lost vision in one eye due to a severe infection. The infection, which has plagued him for much of the summer, has required him to take a step back from the public eye and focus on his recovery.

Elton, known for his resilience and tenacity, admitted to fans that the healing process has been “extremely slow,” but he remains optimistic. His summer was spent quietly recuperating at home, a stark contrast to his usually high-octane schedule. Despite the setback, the superstar has maintained his signature humor and determination, expressing hope for better days ahead.

This health scare reminds us not only of the fragility of life but also of the strength that Elton embodies.

Over the years, he has fought battles both on and off the stage, and this latest struggle is yet another chapter in his extraordinary life. As we send our love and support, we remain hopeful that Elton’s recovery continues and that he can once again shine as brightly as the music he has gifted the world.

77-Year-Old Elton John Faces Health Scare, Battles Eye Infection (Sept. 5, 2024)


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